Kecewa SPM? No no, because Allah ada :)

Assalamu'alaikum andd hyeee people!

Hehe jadiii apakah perasaan anda anda semua setelah menerima keputusan SPM? Kehkeh happy//excited//gelakgulingguling//sad//depressed//frustrated? K sabar sabar hehe.

Sahabat, redha je. Tu Allah dah tentukan kan, paling terbaik tahap tak leh fikir kot Allah dah hadiahkan, sumpah. 

But still we cannot deny, perasaan kecewa atau apa sebab kadang-kadang kita rasa macam ''ish sikit je lagi kalaulah aku study a little harder dah boleh score dah''. 

Atau ''if only those B+ boleh transform jadi A- sikit lagi sikit lagi tau tak''

Aipp jangan cakap ''kalaulah'' and ''if only''. The past cannot be changed, erased or even edited kan. Tu ketetapan Allah buat kita. Tu takdir terindah Allah hadiahkan buat kita. Mesti ada hikmah. Mesti ada sebab.

Stop saying ''I'm not that good and brilliant well those grades that I got for my SPM proves it all'' just because kita kena condemn dengan our relatives or friends or even the teachers...... Kita rasa down bila diorang asyik dok tanya tak habis and then bila jawab jawapan diorang like menghampakan,..

You know yourself even more. Ignore what others cakap pasal kita sebab diorang tak tahu how struggle you guys were masa SPM dulu ni.

''Allah tak pandang hasil kan, Allah pandang usaha''

Typical humans je yang pandang hasil. Indeed, He is the Best Planner!

Kadang-kadang kita rasa macam kita dah redha dah. Dah habis dah bab SPM ni ha dah start to move on dah pun actually. But then things getting worse bila orang tak nak berhenti tanya macam ni

A    :  Ha ni SPM berapa? Mesti straight kan hakhakhak

B    :  Emm Alhamdulillah, tapi tak straight pun lah

A    :  WAIT WHAT? EH TIPULAH TAKKAN SBP TAK DAPAT STRAIGHT A'S.

C    :  EHH SERIOUSLY KENAPA JADI MACAM TU? TAKKANLAH...  *sambil buat muka tak percaya sungguh*

Well,

That hurts so much you know.

Like, do you really need to give such response? Positive sikit..... Takleh eh? Sebenarnya, apa yang diperlukan oleh orang2 yang tengah down because of their SPM's results is like this 

''Ohhhh Alhamdulillah tahniahhhhhhhhh! Ok lah tu bagusss ha lepas ni nak sambung mana?''

Kan.

Kadang-kadang, respons orang sekeliling yang buat kita rasa down, buat kita rasa ''betul lah tu result teruk sangat'' padahal result takdelah teruk mana sebenarnya. InsyaAllah asasi/matriks lepas lagi tu Aameenn!

And, kalau macam ada orang yang did not want to tell you apa result dia dapat, respect, please.. :) Because for certain people, some things are meant to be secret and tak semua benda kita boleh cerita kan? You might hurt them if u keep asking soalan yang they did not even want to answer and they know it's going to be more painful if they tell you. Because well, rahsia bila dah ada orang kedua tau, it's not a secret anymore. You were not in their shoes so don't paksa-paksa if they do not want to okay? 

We just gotta move on and percaya, takdir Allah sentiasa yang terindah. Dan apa yang kita dapat itulah yang terbaik buat kita semua. Allah Maha Hebat, Dia dah plan rezeki kita adil saksama semua orang. It is just a matter of time, kena banyak bersabar sebab hanya Allah yang tahu kenapa dan bila waktu yang tepat dan benar.

Bangunlah. It's definitely not the end of the world yet. Stop pressuring yourself, stop thinking bad about you and stop saying you are not good.

''cause it's the time to leave those feelings behind''